Family and the responsibilities therein can be so demanding such that a busy housewife may even fail to take care of oneself and enjoy some time. There are so many demands that can take the whole day and by the time you will get to breathe, you will be so tired to do anything for yourself. Though you may want to do some things for fun, you will only find yourself waking up in the morning to start again.
Being a busy housewife is very rewarding as this can even bring you so much happiness and satisfaction. However, it is important to think about oneself too and do some important things for yourself. This will help you to continue doing your work without getting overtired or even burnt out.
When you value yourself, it doesn’t mean that you are selfish. You aren’t being selfish because you have been busy whole time with a lot of responsibilities that you had placed at the top of your list. Unfortunately, several women will feel guilty when they think of valuing themselves for they think it’s no different from any form of selfishness.
You should lean more that one can value oneself and at the same time is selfless and very generous. And thus you should not get valuing yourself and being selfish confused in your mind. You should know that valuing yourself will make those around you including your children, to value you too. You will want your kids to grow and be caring adults, happy, confident and live great lives.
Self- value will guide you on the treats that pleases you and how to do it in the middle of your hard work. Such may include giving yourself some time off to do your own interests, meet friends, shop, take a trip or buy yourself a present. It is clear in this page that valuing yourself isn’t giving yourself too much. However, you should ensure that you don’t choose the things that will be more of emotional support mechanisms that are a way of escaping from being a busy housewife. You should be conscious of what your behavior says about your state of mind.
Should you have some troubles believing that all you are doing to yourself is too much, and you are unworthy for them, you should rethink. Take a pen and paper and write down all the things you have done for your family and how caring you have been together with other positive things. It is now time to learn more about all your achievements, how responsible you have been and all the things you should be proud of at the end of the day.